Ethical Porn Options

Ethical Porn Options

Image carries undeniable power: we think in images, we dream in images, we fantasize in images.  It is no wonder pornography captivates us.  The primal image of bodies involved in sex is rich to our imaginations even when it is poorly executed or, worse,...
The Porcupine Dilemma

The Porcupine Dilemma

Some of us love dwell in our inner world. Turning inward has been a challenge for me my entire life. I’ve always turned towards the outer world, even when it was a violent place. Offering my thoughts, feelings and actions to the world around me felt the only possible...
Invisible in plain sight

Invisible in plain sight

How is it possible to feel invisible? What does that even mean: “feel invisible”? Why does it hurt so badly when it is not a physical act of cruelty? It not as though I look in the mirror and see no reflection, but reflection might have a lot to do with the lived...
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